Quotable

This is day five of the sore throat that will not quit, so instead of writing about myself today, I'm going to curl up on the couch for an evening of Ghost Hunters International and Vietnamese noodle bowl with enough Sriracha to scorch this virus out of existence.

The Winner Is...

No, don't be ridiculous. I don't watch the Grammys. I'm referring to the winners of a much more significant contest: my vacation wardrobe.

Most Valuable Hat

by echo design

I loved the painfully-named Luxury Diva hat but the product pictures were so bad I couldn't gauge the actual size of it.

Sandal of the Summer

by Bandolino

Sigh, I wish the Ralph Lauren espadrilles came in my size but sadly, Zappos is out of eights and I've got an impending deadline.

Best Party Dress

by Sandro

This one really didn't have any competition. The minute I saw it I was sure it was the right obnoxiously bright dress for me. Now I just need to get through two more weeks of cold, snow and rampant viruses. To help me do so, I'm imagining myself on deck seven of the Norwegian Spirit which features a club, casino, three other bars and a 23-hour cafe for midnight snacking. Despite the fact that I've been laid up all weekend with another nasty sore throat, winter suddenly doesn't seem as bad.

A Body at Rest, Stays at Rest. Maybe.

I've always found it difficult to exercise. Not the act itself. The part where I put down the remote, lace up my sneakers and commit myself to half an hour of sweating. Despite sometimes even enjoying the sweating part, inertia is my main hurdle. At those times when standing up seems a physical impossibility, I pull out my bag of motivational tricks.

Cute Clothes: As little as five minutes of Sex and the City is usually enough to remind me how much I'd like to wear strapless dresses or high waisted jeans and that my fatty armpits and tummy pooch are the only things standing in my way.

Red Checks: Every night that I exercise, I put a red check on the calendar. The satisfaction I get from that is worth more than an endorphin buzz to me. Even though I didn't quite meet my goal at the end of January, seeing that army of little red checks helped me see how far I had come.

Variety: Most of the time, instead of putting on the same old Windsor Pilates video that I've had since college, I pick a new OnDemand exercise video. It keeps me from copping out on the basis of boredom or anticipating particularly painful moves (ya know, that ones that are actually good for you). As a fringe benefit, the range of moves keeps my muscles from getting used to a particular function. I'm an ab-crunchin', kick-boxin', disco-dancin' fiend.

Bad Photos: I may be one of the few women on earth with a mental body image that is actual skinnier than the one in the mirror. Sometimes my chubbiness even surprises me when I see my reflection because I would SWEAR I'm thinner than that. While that's all well and good for the psyche, it's not very helpful for motivation. A little vanity goes a long way here. When I'm really stuck in the doldrums, I refer to my absolute least favorite photos which turn the tables and make me look heavier than I actually am. The idea of another double-chin picture is enough to send me running… anywhere, so long as I'm running.

Self: I keep tabs on Self magazine to remind myself that exercising isn't just about looking less jiggly in a bathing suit. It's also about keeping my insidey bits in working condition. When I'm not picking up a copy, I poke around their website and follow a few of their blogs for a reminder that I owe it to my future self to take care of this. (You couldn't see it but I just did that up and down hand wiggle in front of my body).

Blogging: Publicly announcing that I actually have a goal has been immensely helpful as a last resort motivator. When none of the behind the scenes tools work, I think about how I don't want to admit that I didn't exercise as much as I said I would. The thought of broadcasting abject failure has gotten me moving more than once in the past month.

Of course, sometimes nothing is enough to get me moving. Mondays, for example, are miserable enough without adding another obligation so I've declared them my only devoted non-exercise day. The rest of the week is open season though. So, what motivates you?

Foozball Sunday

I woke up this morning prepared to be a good wife on Superbowl Sunday, albeit, a wife that has no understanding of it despite attending four years of high school football games. By 9 am I had done my best to prepare by putting my hair in a sloppy pony tail and donning a Red Sox t-shirt. While this may seem misguided to some, it is my firm belief that since the Patriots are not playing today, football is officially dead to New Englanders and we can now begin shouting "Jeter sucks" at will.

The errant enthusiasm continued as I greeted Ryan with a battle cry of "WHO'S READY FOR SOME FOOZBALL?!?!?!" nearly causing him to upend his morning coffee. Shortly after, he asked what I wanted for dinner and that I was ready for. I may not know the difference between a quarterback or a lineback or a hunchback, but I DID know the answer to that question. I informed him that we would be having appetizers while watching the game and, well, he misted just a little bit.

Then we spent the next four hours cooking a feast.

Teriyaki Ground Turkey Skewers

Green Bean Fries with Horseradish-Cucumber Sauce

Mini meatballs with this BBQ sauce

Southwestern Potato Skins

Pretzel Crusted Fried Pickle Chips with Mustard Sauce

We were already stuffed by kickoff, just moments after Christina Aguilera had finished butchering the National Anthem. I've recovered a bit now though and I think there are some pickles left so if you'll just excuse me a moment...

What Goes Best with Vacation?

New England continues getting walloped by back to back storms. Today, I tuned out the sleet and focused on our upcoming vacation. Besides the promise of sun, beach and new ports, one of my favorite parts of cruising is that there's still a touch of the old-fashioned in it - playing shuffle board, strutting on the promenade deck, drinking a Tom Collins in the piano bar. Best of all, people still get dolled up. Granted, some show up to the formal dining room in sports jerseys but there's also the crowd that wears their pearls and cocktail dresses. I began my cruise wear shopping with the two most important accessories: a big floppy hat and little white heels. I've narrowed it down to two of each.

Karen from the block:

Echo vs Luxury Diva (shut up)

Labor Day Who?:

Ralph Lauren vs Bandolino

So, any thoughts?